4 Things Only Girls Going Through a Breakup Understand

Dealing with a breakup is a challenging time and can cause a woman to feel and do unthinkable things. While many onlookers may scrunch their nose at a broken hearted girl, it's only women who are also experiencing a breakup themselves, that can truly understand and sympathize. Here are the four things only girls going through a breakup understand.

Your Appearance

When you are going through a breakup it's important, for your self-esteem and self worth, to feel beautiful. It may seem materialistic but feeling good about one's self will help boost your overall demeanor.
Feel free to take an extra ten minutes to do your hair or your make-up. It's okay if you decide to buy a new outfit too. Give into these small indulgences, so that you can feel better about yourself. It's not superficial, it's something only a breakup can justify

The Emotional Roller Coaster

When you breakup, at times it can feel like a piece of yourself has been dismembered - causing your emotions to rise and fall quite easily and frequently. Believe it or not, it's absolutely normal to have a whirlwind of emotions. Only women who are experiencing a breakup, can thoroughly understand the emotional wreck a woman can be.

   

The Desire for Your Ex

It's not uncommon to still have feelings for your ex after you've split ways. Many people may judge you and think that you're not emotionally stable however, women who are experiencing their own breakup will understand where you are coming from. It's not that you want to desire your ex or even that you'll act on it, you just can't rid yourself of the feelings you have for them. Only time will rid you of that desire.

Revenge

While it's unwise to act on the urge to seek out revenge, the feelings and desire to get revenge is completely normal and common. Depending on how the breakup occurred, many women are left to pick up the pieces and those pieces can get messy. Resist the temptation to plot and carry out revenge but know that other women are experiencing the same feelings.     Thank you.